Feminine Energy Rising! Reawaken the Goddess Within You

Our society has been strongly influenced by a masculine dominant energy. In the last centuries women, thus the female energy was shunned, broken down and silenced. With the rise in collective consciousness, there is also a return of the female energy, which is so powerful, loving, healing and fun! In this article we will look at how there is feminine and masculine energy within everyone of us, what the attributes of each are, what to watch out for if your female side is underactive and what you can do to reawaken that energy within, for both to eb in balance. And best yet, I will be sharing the most effective, super simple and even fun way, to reawaken your female energy.

Female and Masculine energy within every person

We all have feminine and masculine within us. It doesn’t matter whether you are a man or a woman, both energies are part of every living creature, including the human being, us. Just like yin and yang, just like dark and light, it’s a complementary way of being. And the key is that we balance the feminine and masculine within us, not that one is more dominant than the other.

The left side of your body represents the feminine side and the right side, the masculine side.

The feminine side is intuitive, creative, internal, emotional, sensitive, caring, joyful, empathic, sensual, and nurturing. Feminine energy is also strong, wild, powerful, in loving ways, in gentleness, in softness, it’s the energy of feeling.

The masculine side is rational, external, protective, decisive, discerning, structured, directive, and initiative. Masculine energy is about taking action, bringing stability, being able to make decisions and lead decisively, it’s the energy of doing.

What does it look like when it’s out of balance?

When either side is out of balance, either being overactive or underactive, your body, being the intelligent creation it is, will inform you. First, you will have all the emotional signs appear, and if you don’t listen to those, well then, your body will express them through physical ailments. First softly, then louder and louder until you listen, maybe to the point where you might almost lose a leg.

If you are out of balance with your feminine side, you will have ailments on your left side of the body. If you are out of balance with your masculine side, you will have ailments on your right side. Once again, it does not matter if you are a man or a woman; both sides, both yin and yang, are within us all.

From an emotional perspective, when your female energy is out of balance and underactive, you are people-pleasing, have very little boundaries, lack creative actions, say yes to everything and put everyone before you. You might feel like you have lost direction in your life, feel depleted, are afraid to feel sensual, afraid to be feminine, don’t like to touch your body, are embarrassed, don’t feel comfortable in your body, criticize yourself, lack self-love, let others rule over you, have no ability to be sensual, and are completely out of touch with yourself.

And if your male energy is therefore overactive, compensating for the lack of balance within you, you become aggressive, angry, controlling, needing to take all decisions, focused on greed and lacking empathy.

And this is the disbalance we can see in our society. The feminine energy is too underactive and the male energy too overactive, expressed through the inhumane actions, of war, destruction, torture, hatred, disconnection and all of that shabam…

Please note that there are also many individuals out there who have an overactive female side and underactive masculine side. However, since collectively, for centuries, a masculine energy has dominated society, and this article is focusing on reawakening the female side within us, whether you are a woman or a man, it is so important for the evolution of our world to go towards a more loving, harmonious, fair, empathic, joyful life that the female energy rises.

Society has shunned female power for centuries

Men who have lost touch with their own feminine side are scared of powerful whole women. Because we live in a society that tells men not to be emotional, to be harsh, and so many men have their feminine side so asleep. A real woman, who is living through her feminine power in full awareness with her feminine and masculine energy balanced, scares men who are only living through the masculine energy, because they know how powerful she is, and that is why, as a society, the female energy has been shunned, but it no longer is, too many of us women are rising the feminine energy!

We can see the disharmony of this in our world.

For centuries, women have been stripped of their feminine energy, their power, and goddess-like way of being, due to the way society is built by male dominance.

We live in a time, though, where all this is changing, where the female energy is waking up. And once again, I wish to highlight, I’m not simply speaking of women stepping back into their power, but of men also becoming more intact with their feminine side whilst remaining extremely masculine. The same way a woman can be extremely sensual and beautiful, yet also have the masculine alive, allowing her to be strong, powerful. It’s truly about finding balance of both energies within the body.

The way our society is built and has treated women and men for the last couple of centuries has made many women disconnect from their feminine energy, forget their power, and made them weak. The same way, it has forced men to disconnect from their emotional side and only push forwards in harshness.

And if you are a woman coming from the business world, I have no doubt that you know all about this!

Balanced women and men are incredible co-creators

Women and men are supposed to work together. When we really come together, we can create such incredible things. Women are sensual and creative creatures, and men are tribal safekeepers. I’m sure you know the phrase: a woman keeps a man wild, and a man keeps a woman safe. That’s ultimately it.

When a woman is in balance with her feminine energy just as much as the masculine energy, wao, what a sensual, powerful goddess! You can see it in the look of her eyes. She is calm, flowing with life, confident, strong, yet soft, sharp, yet in the flow; she moves in poise. And a woman like that, in this world, is made through intense self-work. She is made by first being ripped apart of her true power by the male-dominant energy, which has been residing for centuries. But if she continues to heal her female wounds, release the need to be masculine, and understand her true power… Wao, now that’s someone a man who is also in balance with both sides absolutely loves and adores, and a man who is out of balance, well, he is scared shitless of her.

When women and men each have the female and masculine balanced within and then come together, wao, what a powerhouse! A woman who is fully powerful and loving brings the energy of feeling, and a man, physically the protector and strong, brings the energy of doing. Together, they are invincible. And this even more, scares those people still holding on to the old world.

And the beautiful thing is, this is rising, and there is no stopping it.

Now, getting to the juicy part of the article, how can you reawaken your female energy?

Writing this as a woman, who today has completely stepped back into her powerful female, confident, goddess energy in loving softness and compassion, I once was completely disconnected from my feminine side, and being in the society we live in, fully allowed the masculine energy to take over. It was only when I almost had my left leg chopped off, where I learned about the left and right side of our body, and I catapulted into reawakening the feminine energy, so these suggestions all come from personal experience:

Stop thinking! Start feeling!

Get creative. Start doing all those creative hobbies and activities that you kept on pushing aside or were ashamed to do, or were told you can’t do because of the world we live in. Whatever it is, do that. Even if you are scared, lost all your confidence, and feel too weak, well, that’s exactly when you’ve gotta do all these things. Don’t listen to the conditional masculine mind, only feel.

That’s where nature, you know, “mother” nature, can also be of great help. Reconnect with the feminine energy of the planet, with all the natural elements around you. And allow its softness and calmness to fuel you.

Now, I could list a bunch of tools, such as breathwork, journaling, etc. I love all those things, but it’s actually much more simple.

To raise your female energy, next to getting creative and working with the sound of nature, try DANCE.

Think about it, when you’ve had harder times, and you simply went out partying and dancing, didn’t you feel great in those moments, where you were just letting loose and danced? I mean, the environment might have not been the best, with all the numbing alcohol or substances around, mixed with a bunch of darker energy people, but the dancing was the awesome part, right? I mean, why do you think so many people (again, men and women) who might still be completely caught up in the old way of life love clubbing and partying, coz that’s where they get to release the wild, joyful, creative feminine energy which unconsciously wants to get out and live through them.

Dancing is the ultimate healing tool for reawakening the feminine energy. And it’s so simple. Life really seems to be simple, and we’ve gotta stop overcomplicating everything. The simple answer, the free answer, is usually the one working best.

So, move and dance as much as you can.

Where to dance freely?

When your feminine energy is strongly repressed, it can really help to do slow movements and intentional dancing, somatic movements (somatic means getting into the body and out of the mind), so closing your eyes and really feeling where something feels tense and stuck in the body and doing movements that feel right to you in that moment, as those movements will help clear the energy. This you can do alone, in nature or wherever you feel safe. Again, your body is so smart and self-healing and reawakening your feminine energy will also allow you to build that connection between your body and self. The more your female energy comes back, the more your intuition also comes back alive, and thus, you will get better and better at knowing how your body wants to move.

And once you start reconnecting with your body and trusting how it wants to move, dancing with others, amongst the right type of people, can be extremely powerful too.

Now, when you are aware and working on reawakening the female energy, you don’t necessarily want to go to old-school clubs, which honestly have dark energy due to the alcohol and substances fueling the nightlife. What if you just want to go somewhere, and dance, and feel safe, and joyfully, intuitively move your body to enjoy, release, be, maybe even connect with like-minded people, not have drunk dark energies around you, but also not be in a too spiritual environment? Well, there are already a few incredible organizations around the world hosting day raves, sauna raves, day dances, and this is also why I created Modern Jungle events.

And this is also where DJing comes in, and the rise of sober, alive, happy female DJs. Working with music using activating frequencies and sounds, in such events, to regulate the nervous system, where you can stop the mind, and purely feel. Allow your body to flow and express itself creatively, however it feels right to you, and moving rhythmically will reconnect with your own feminine energy. So, if you’re looking for such a female DJ, hit me up!

And the most beautiful thing is, this is not an expensive self-help course, it’s just dancing. So simple and effective. “Last night a DJ saved my life” now takes on a whole new meaning!

I’ll end this article by saying, women are true goddesses, they can create life. I recently came across a sentence saying: if babies were born coming from a magical door somewhere on a field, this door would be praised and hailed, it would become a sacred altar and treated like God itself. What a wild thought, because women are this door, women can bring life into this world, so let’s praise and hail women, as the feminine energy is bringing harmony and peace to this world.

It is already done, feminine energy is reawakening collectively.

We are generation change!

Much love,

Isabel